Saturday, October 19, 2013

Our First Rwandan Wedding!

When we came to visit Rwanda the first time in 2011
we had a driver taking all over the city.  His name was Bosco....
and today, August 24, 2013 was Bosco's wedding day and he invited us to
celebrate the day with him.  

We couldn't find the church, so we were
 a little bit late but when we arrived they were
just walking down the aisle! 


But they weren't the only ones walking down the aisle....
Different couples kept coming in after them..

Coming and coming... 

Finally all six couples got down front...
and their bridal parties all followed them down the aisle, too. 
There were even more photographers than couples.

And even more guests!!  The church was packed...
It was a large Catholic church.

As the service begins....Bosco is reflecting on the moment.

So many couples that you can't see them all! 
Listening to the priest talk. 




The photographer's lights help! 

As they exchange their vows,  the cameras crowd closer still.




 The best man and lady stood behind each couple  --down the row-- they went-- each couple saying their vows, exchanging rings... one at a time. (and the cameras follow right down the line)


It was a very solemn moment. 
Until the Exchanging of the Rings! 


Then the veil goes back... 

And the announcement of the new couple!
    Quite a joyous moment!

 Bosco and his new wife! 
But still no kiss!

It's official!
Yes.. she is even taller than him and he is not short. 

A great looking couple. 


Lots of gorgeous couples! 

But still no kisses! 


Each couple read something... i don't know what...
since it was all in Kinyarwanda.  





THEN --came the surprise and funniest moment of
the wedding ceremony! 

The priest handed each of the couples a basket...
We were so happy because we weren't able to
go to the reception so this was the perfect time
to give the bride and groom their wedding card and gift. 

 People were pouring down the aisles filling each basket.  
All the time we're thinking --what a great idea!

 Until the priest collected all the baskets
and took them to the alter. Oh no.. now what???

 We were laughing right along with Bosco....  because we realized that we had just given
their gift to "the church"!!
(After the service I talked to Bosco and he was still laughing about us throwing our card and gift into the offering basket....
He said he knew immediately what we'd done.. but he said..
"I didn't know what to do....I couldn't just reach in and take it out..")  haha!  Another cultural learning experience in Kigali! 

The  ceremony ended with lots of praise and worship music and of course...
communion....The choir had been singing
throughout the service, too.

Even though we didn't understand anything that anyone
had said, it had been 
a beautiful wedding ceremony.. for all of the couples--
ALL 6 OF THEM!! 

So we found out today why all the weddings are so large!
Apparently to not only save money, but to
actually be able to accommodate all the weddings that
happen each weekend.  

Every Sat. there are several wedding photo spots 
around the city and there are always lots of people 
and wedding parties set up for pictures.  

We were thrilled to be able to join Bosco  
and his new bride
for their wedding. 

We pray that the Lord will bless you both 
as you begin your life together! 

love,
margie and bruce, too!

Thursday, October 17, 2013

Graduation Day at Tubahurirze!


This organization is one the AIC helps support.  
Jeannie, the director asked if we could come for the girls' graduation and so did..  I was the only one able to go. 




Still setting up... even though it was time to start!

The girls were all assembling!




Some of the guests.

This is Jeannie!



One of the "littlest" guests!

 Time to start... a little late.. but better late than never.
A message was delivered by the founder
along with lots of Scripture.

This NGO was started to help battered and HIV women get back on their feet!  To help them be creative and to have businesses of their own.

Singing and Praying!

Jeannie watching the girls sing.

Of course, along with the singing was movement and dance.

They were quite good.. even though they were really being taught to sew! 

This little one next to me approved.  His mommy was singing--She was one of the graduates!
I believe this was a local pastor but not sure.  They had quite a long program and it was all in Kinyarwanda so i didn't understand all the words. ( any of the words, really)

But this was really the medium. 




Much beautiful work that the girls had done.



  with lots of beautiful African fabrics.

But it is the embroidery work that amazed me!



It is so beautiful and carefully done!  One large table cloth with runner and set of napkins....right at $100.  Can you imagine???  All hand work. 

Close up of a quilt!

While everyone was milling around looking at all
 the girls had done....
I went backstage to see the 10 machines that AIC had donated.

What a gift for these girls!

When I came out of the back... the girls were singing again.

And had official dancers, too!





They got some folks up on their feet to join them.



KICKIN' UP THE DIRT! 


THIS PICTURE SAYS IT ALL:  THE JOY IN THIS DANCER'S FACE,  THE VISITORS: SMILING IN JOY WITH THEM.
AND THE FORWARD MOVEMENT OF THESE GIRLS!

This is indeed a place where girls are brought
out of darkness into the light.

Into the Light of Life!  They are moving forward!

Their own lives have changed, their children's lives have changed
and they have found hope for today and for their future.

Thank you Jeannie, and all involved with
this great organization.

May the Lord Keep on Blessing each one of you!

love,
margie